How far ahead to you guys plan your podcasts? Like, is it a one week at a time thing or do you have the next month+ planned out assuming nothing serious happens? And do you accept suggestions for future episodes?
We plan them weekly. And we SHOULD plan ahead for things. The past two months have been a bit difficult, with deaths in the family, Christmas, and half of us being out of town for the holidays (since reunited). We’ll be starting back up this week.
And yes, we do accept suggestions, we always ask for questions, recipes, stories, art, and suggestions at the end of each podcast.
What is the most stressful part about gaining as a couple? The most rewarding?
The most stressful part is that everyone looks to you as an example. We’re just a couple of gay guys living our lives like the rest, who just happen to enjoy gaining. But, somehow we get put on a pedestal, we’re not paradigms, trust me. We live, we eat, we fight, we make up, we have sex, we are a couple regular joes.
The most rewarding part is being about to share our mutual love of fat during our sexual escapades and being about to share the community with each other.
I need some advice. I work a job that is physical labor and since starting it I've lost about 10-12 pounds. I work from about midnight to four in the morning so I can eat too much at dinner or I'll feel sick. I don't get up till late so once the day starts the meal I get is dinner. Is there anyway at all that I can gain weight around this job?
I’ve worked as a mover before, so I understand the difficulties of maintaining, let along gaining weight with such a physical job. That shift isn’t the easiest to plan some decent eating around either. I’d advise starting out by trying to double your usual portions, and plan a large sleep inducing meal for when you return home after work in the morning, right before you go to sleep. Also: ice cream.
So what Disney Princess character would you compare yourself to? Then what Disney Villian would you compare yourself to? Then what is the overal Disney character you would compare yourself to?
Peter: Mickey Mouse, the Alpha and the Omega too.
Matt: Belle: I read and I like my men hairy. Cruella, I love booze cigarettes and I cackle. Overall, Malificent because she didn’t get invited to the party and crashed it. Something I like do in real life. Just ask around.
I'm an underaged gainer. What's appropriate and inappropriate for me to talk about with legal aged gainers/encouragers? Like, would I be able to just talk to them, no sex or meeting up involved? What about cyber roleplay stuff like feeding, since that isn't conventionally considered sexual? And for that matter, WOULD I be allowed to meet with a legal aged encourager if our only intentions were him feeding me? It's just tough being so alone with this lifestyle, having no one to talk to about it.
Underaged is a vague term. If you are 16-17, I’d advise keeping a low profile on the various websites, though I don’t think you’d need punish your own growth as a person by totally blocking out the possibility of talking with other like-minded people. There are plenty of younger guys joining the various sites as time goes on, and you’re sure to find someone you feel safe getting to know and sharing with. Logistics such as “cyber feeding”, well, ideally you shouldn’t open your sexuality up to someone you don’t know well or at all, over the internet. However, people are people, and hormones are hormones. I’d urge for some extreme caution, for your own safety. Also, the 27 year old guy who thinks you’re hot is a creep. He just is.
If you’re under 16, try to stay away. You’ve got the last of your innocence left, and a lot of life to be who you want to be. Don’t rush yourself.
To make up for the lack of a show this past weekend, and in no way a fix for my demeaning boredom, I’ll be checking through our “Ask Me” section (you don’t have to be registered with Tumblr to post) and doing my best to answer whatever questions you delightful gainers, encouragers, and others might have.
Matt’s away this week, so this would be a sad attempt to man the helm by me. Talk soon.